I Haven’t Told My Wife About Why My Last Marriage Ended. It Feels Like I’m Lying to Her.

Key Points:

• A reader married to his second wife, Jane, wonders if he should disclose that his first marriage was opened due to incompatible sex drives, despite their current monogamous relationship and mutual agreement to avoid past relationship details.
• The advice suggests considering Jane’s feelings about hearing past relationship details and reflecting on why withholding this information feels dishonest, recommending thoughtful communication based on their agreed boundaries.
• Another reader seeks guidance on pursuing cervical orgasms with his wife, who doesn’t orgasm from penetration alone, and questions clitoral stimulation, positions, and emotional release during cervical orgasms; the response emphasizes personal experimentation and acknowledges the variability of experiences.
• A concerned wife reports her husband’s excessive porn use and inability to abstain beyond two hours, fearing its impact on their sex life; advice recommends professional evaluation to rule out underlying mental health issues and stresses the seriousness of compulsive sexual behaviors.
• The column invites readers to share their own stories and provides a platform for community advice and discussion, highlighting the complexity and individuality of sexual relationships and challenges.