My child just had a terrifying medical crisis. I’m shocked by my best friend’s response.
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Key Points:
- A long-time friend, Sage, has been unresponsive and unsupportive during the letter writer’s daughter's recent medical crisis, causing hurt and confusion despite the writer's past support during Sage’s medical issues.
- Dear Prudence explains that a person’s ability to provide support often depends on their current life circumstances, but notes that complete silence, especially no follow-up message, is unusual and warrants a direct conversation to understand Sage’s behavior.
- Another letter discusses a wedding party conflict where the bride excluded a close friend, Jasmine, from the groom’s party, with Prudence advising the letter writer to remain neutral since Jasmine has given her blessing.
- A third letter addresses a boyfriend’s refusal to introduce his partner to his parents, citing
