
Carolyn Hax: Husband finds joy in annual bash. Spouse finds a grudge.
Key Points:
- The writer’s husband is passionate about hosting a large annual themed holiday party, investing significant time in baking, shopping, and decorating.
- The event caters to about 60 guests, including friends, colleagues, neighbors, and others, and is considered a major occasion.
- Guests are asked not to bring anything unless they want a specific drink, indicating the hosts cover most costs.
- Despite the high expense and effort involved, the husband finds great joy in organizing and hosting the party, while the writer is less enthusiastic about entertaining.










