Dear Abby: Disliked dad's daughter receives no condolences
Chicago Sun-Times • • entertainment
Key Points:
- A reader asks about the etiquette of sending condolences to someone who hated their deceased family member; Abby advises explaining the reasoning to the friend and apologizing if the lack of condolences caused hurt.
- Another reader describes a younger co-worker sending mixed signals of interest; Abby suggests the behavior may be flirtatious or socially awkward and encourages accepting a drink offer to explore the potential for friendship.
- A family struggles with how to introduce their daughter’s long-term partner who is not formally a son-in-law; Abby recommends asking the partner how he prefers to be introduced and respecting his choice.
- Abby emphasizes understanding and communication as key in sensitive social situations involving grief, relationships, and social cues.
