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Debating whether to move

2026.02.24 12:43

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Rent is affordable where I'm at but it's my ex's dad's there's a lot of drama and I just feel it's time for a move but if I do I don't know what awauts at the next place worse than here!? Ya I guess change is scary sometimes

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I def would move out lol, I would never stay at an ex's place, or somewhere that they have free access to (you never know what they might do after a bad breakup, best to try to stay as safe as possible)

2026.02.24 15:36

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So he's gone has been for over a year in jail not out anytime soon. But yeah you make a very good point here I can miss rent but that also allows me to be lazy/unmotivated I have. Really private area and bath and I know the bullshit here there it's. A mystery and what if I'm locked out in 6 mos here they would never kick me out and that is good security so I'm torn I really wan na do it

2026.02.26 04:34

coin collector

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Thanks for taking the time to lend an ear and advice

2026.02.26 04:35

Silver

Ofc, anytime! I will always try my best to help others out. I agree that that's good that you don't have to worry about getting kicked out, but I would still try to save money so you can move to a better place... I imagine you'll eventually want a family or at least a house to yourself so you can invite whomever you please over.

2026.02.26 05:53

coin collector

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So I have a duplex so the upstairs is separate and mine to do as I please but ya I nevee wanted to stay here luckily my family is grown 2 kids but ya now I'm not even sure if the place will go thru I knew not to get to excited on case in fell thru but I so wanna go

2026.02.27 02:43