I Reminded My Husband of Our Long-Time Agreement. His Reaction Isn’t Fair.
Slate • • health
Key Points:
- A woman in a long-term open marriage faces challenges as her husband experiences erectile dysfunction, leading her to seek intimacy outside their marriage, raising questions about honesty and boundaries within their agreement.
- The advice emphasizes clarifying communication about what details the husband wants to know regarding outside encounters, suggesting a possible “don’t-ask-don’t-tell” arrangement to maintain trust and respect his feelings.
- For a transmasculine individual on testosterone gel experiencing loss of orgasmic pleasure, a queer sex therapist recommends exploring different types of stimulation and community resources, noting that testosterone typically does not affect orgasm.
- A man who recently began exercising reports an unexpected increase in libido; the advice acknowledges this as common due to hormonal and neurological effects of exercise and encourages
