I Thought I Was Making My Wife’s Sex Dream Come True. Then It All Went Wrong.
Slate • • health
Key Points:
- A husband surprised his wife with a planned threesome on Valentine’s Day, but she reacted with anger because he arranged it without explicit consent, highlighting the importance of clear, non-erotic communication before acting on shared fantasies.
- Advice emphasizes that certain sexual experiences, including threesomes, should never be surprises, and partners must agree on details like who, when, and where to ensure mutual comfort and consent.
- Another reader asked how to overcome aversion to the taste and smell of semen, with advice suggesting that chemistry, changing preferences, and clear communication with a partner are key, along with strategies like starting with less direct contact.
- A woman concerned about her friend's plan to become a financial dominatrix was advised to respect her friend’s autonomy
