We went to a risqué club. What happened there has him fuming-and me confused.
Key Points:
- A woman writes to Slate’s sex advice column explaining that after visiting a sex club with her husband, she ended up having sex with more partners than he did, leading to his frustration and complaints about fairness.
- The advisor, Rich, suggests the husband's reaction is childish and entitled, emphasizing that there is no inherent fairness or quota in such environments where partner interest varies naturally.
- Rich advises that unless there was a prior agreement about equal engagement, the husband’s complaints are unfounded and that he should appreciate the experience and the fact that they both had new sexual encounters.
- The column highlights that such grievances often arise spontaneously and should be addressed by discussing comfort and boundaries for future experiences rather than assigning blame.