What is the 'Midwest goodbye'
New York Post • • business
Key Points:
- The "Midwest goodbye," also known as the "Minnesota goodbye," is a cultural phenomenon characterized by prolonged farewells filled with hugs, small talk, and repeated attempts to leave, often occurring after a meal in the American Midwest.
- This ritual involves lingering in doorways, resisting leftovers, and extended conversations that can continue even after guests reach their cars, reflecting the region's reputation for generous hospitality.
- Comedian Charlie Berens popularized the concept by humorously outlining its typical steps, highlighting the difficulty of actually departing despite clear signals of leaving.
- Etiquette expert Richie Frieman explains that the Midwest goodbye signifies comfort, enjoyment, and respect, serving as a kind way to show appreciation for the host, though it can be exhausting for guests.
- To navigate the lengthy farewell politely, Frieman suggests planning ahead, setting mental time limits for interactions, and reading the room to avoid overstaying without offending the host.
